Tag: Thomas Bistritz

One week left until the AIDS Walk New York! Have you made a donation?

It’s not too late to be a part of the GaySocialites Team in the AIDS Walk New York. We’re just one week away! If you can’t walk, then please make a donation of any amount!

Help us help many others as we walk in memory of Christopher Kambitisis who served on the GaySocialites.com Editorial Board and was my best friend!

On that day, we’re lucky to have Chris’ sister, Maria Kambitsis, as our honorary co-captain! Come out and meet Maria, many of Chris’ friends and the GaySocialites personalities (such as Charles Winters, Demanda Dahling, King Ralphy, Joshua Sean and more!)

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Afternoon Delight: Todd Sanfield in Hotel | Motel by Kevin McDermott

Todd Sanfield, shot photographer Kevin McDermott for the book Hotel Motel, is providing us with the hump day eye candy as today’s Afternoon Delight.

Here are more pictures of Todd Sanfield’s Hotel Motel followed by a description and details on how you can by the book of photos shot by Kevin McDermott.

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Editor-in-Chief's Round Table: The Power List

Out Magazine recently named their Power List, the 50 most influential people in the LGBT community.

The magazine poses the question: “How to measure a person’s power? In a world in which we have inexpensive tools to reach billions, it may seem that the globe truly is flat, and we’re all on an even playing field. But a few exemplary individuals manage to influence the way others live — either through their public personas, politics, or wealth — and affect cultural and social attitudes.”

So it got me to thinking, what does make one influential? What qualities does a person have to possess in order to make a list? And what about this particular list?

As always, Charles Winters and Demanda Dahling are here. Also joining me: GaySocialites.com‘s resident dapper Kevin Novinski; Associate editor Christopher Dellea; and NYC DJ, artist, writer and fantastical creature Seth Silberman.

So, right this way…

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Editor-in-Chief's Roundtable: Inside the Editor's Studio

Having a degree in theatre, I’ve always watched “Inside the Actor’s Studio” with great interest. I find it intriguing to hear actor’s discuss their motivations behind characters and their experiences during various projects. I also find James Lipton to be kind of a hoot, and when it came out he once worked as pimp in France in his earlier days, my admiration for him only grew.

At the end of each episode, he asks his guest a series of ten questions, originally developed by Bernard Pivot for his French television show, Bouillon de Culture, and adapted by Lipton. It has become known as the Pivot Questionnaire, and the answers are as revealing about one’s personality as fun to give.

The Pivot Questionnaire came to my mind earlier in the week when I was looking for a quote I originally posted in my old LiveJournal (yes, it’s still online, oy) and I realized I provided my own answers sometime back in 2003ish. Reading them, it quickly became evident that I wasn’t familiar with the person who wrote them. I wanted to see how my answers would change almost nine years later, with a little more of life under my brasserie. And what better place to answer them than here, as well as see how some of my closest colleagues, friends and characters have to say.

Charles Winters and Demanda are once again on my little panel. And weighing in this week we have three very special guests. The first is ever controversial Conservative spokesperson for the Lord, Shealita BaBay (and she really will, folks!). Secondly, we have GaySocialites.com columnist, fashionista, nightlife personality and all-around fantastical lady, Kenyatta Khan. Lastly–a treat–writer, actress, photographer, model, media whore, creator of The Gerry Party and definite personality, Gerry Visco.

With that ladies and gentleman, we begin…

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Demanda Dahling, Nightlife Personality, Dead at 29

Demanda Dahling, a New York City nightlife personality, was found dead inside her apartment on West 27th Street, the victim of an apparent shoe attack. She was 29 years old.

Demanda was born as the alter-ego of Thomas Bistritz in 2007, and quickly became a fixture on the NYC nightlife scene. A Kabuki-style drag queen, Demanda was known as the over-the-top, unpredictable character with an overly white-face, slutty lingerie and a tongue that not only met several cab drivers, but also many a doorman.

“She could be a little out of control,” said friend Charles Winters. He added, “Although a sweet thing, but she liked to throw things. I loved it, but others were less than impressed.” She was infamously escorted out of several nightclubs during her stint on the scene, and asked not to return.

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