Let’s not bother with why he did it, or how much you didn’t deserve it. Let’s put aside your feelings for a second, and all the countless times you’ll be revisiting the moment he told you “we’re through,” as well as the many, many happy and complex moments you shared before.
What’s important is: you’ve been dumped.
What do you do now? Well, in my opinion, there are a few ways to go about this. Please note: all of these suggestions assume that he is legitimately through with you. If you truly, truly believe that he’s going to come back, then godspeed. Go back and get that guy!
For the rest of you, or those of you who felt the way I described in the last paragraph, chased him, got shot down, and came back to this blog… here we go: